If anyone reading this is as crazed and stressed out with assignments or work or just anything...I totally relate. I pulled my first all-nighter in college earlier this week but I can still say that I absolutely love the whole college experience. Again, I'm going to advertise schools...because I know a lot of you out there are looking into different schools around this time of year. Baylor University in Waco, TX folks! Perfect atmosphere, friendly faces, incredible campus, sunny all the time, here's the link to the school! Check it out! http://www.baylor.edu/.
One thing I've noticed is the immense use of technology used on campus, which makes sense since we're living in the technological age where everything is easily accessible at our fingertips. But is this making us all a little more lazy and a lot less productive? Possibly. Now we can do homework, stream Netflix, listen to iTunes, surf Facebook all at once on the same device...this could be the reason so many kids drop out after their freshman year. In one of my classes we're learning the art of rhetoric, which sounds boring, and I'll admit, some of the speeches I've read out of my Plato books have done a fabulous job at putting me to sleep. But Socrates points something out: that society is for the most part ignorant in the art of rhetoric. Rhetoricians-- people who were "professionally" spoke and gave speeches back then-- would list off anything they could make sound believable. Isn't that what society is like today? It's on the internet, heir-go it must be true! Except now a days it's the media just spilling out whatever it thinks will be accepted as credible.
At the same time, it seems like technology has made it easy to make anyone and everyone able to express whatever they want and sadly, many people will believe these less credible sources (Wikipedia, ask.com, etc...). For example, apps like facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Tumblr allow anyone with internet to post whatever they jolly well want to post. Right now, I'm blogging on a website public to anyone that cares to read it. For this reason, I think we've not only made a technological shift but we also have this need for people to constantly approve of what we have to say...
Ingrid Michaelson's song, Everybody hits on this idea of constantly looking for approval. "Everybody wants to love, everybody wants to be loved" it's true, we all post a status in hopes for the most "likes" constantly friending people to build up our audience and posting pictures on our Instagrams to get more followers. But is this really a bad thing? We're now living in a generation where everyone and anyone can be an artist. Youtube allows anyone with an account to upload a video in hopes to become the next "Justin Bieber." Instagram lets us take pictures and filter them to look spectacular. This can all be great at times, but we have to keep in mind why we initially post. Is it for some greater purpose? Is it harmful to others? Is it merely for fun? But the greater question to ask is "Do I still have room for God in my life?" This one is difficult because it's hard to balance out everything. We all want to be appreciated by someone, someone tangible, someone who we know and can physically see and hear. Sometimes God's appreciation for us all is overlooked because we live in such a materialistic world. We are constantly focused on pleasing society.
I found this to be a problem in high school especially. There's different groups people can fall in, and everyone wants to fit in. And then once you've established your group you feel the need to continually meet high standards to stay in this group. It's crazy! And all the time we're loved by the one person who really matters: God.
College is tough... not only did I have to learn to adjust to new living standards, but I was practically thrown into this pool with 3000 other students in my position and I had to learn to friend-making process all over again, like kindergarten. Except in kindergarten friends were made daily with the standards being low.
It's true, we all want to love and we all want to be loved. Just keep in mind that God's love is constant and he will always love us no matter what.
Psalm 86:15 But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness.
My Challenge for everyone: Pray! As weird as it sounds, prayer can be challenging. A lot of questions about prayer come up...when do I pray? What do I pray about? Where is it acceptable to pray? The answer? ANYTHING is acceptable! Prayer doesn't have a set formula, just pray to God about anything that comes to mind! It's amazing what a few minutes of prayer will make you feel afterward, you'll truly feel the love for God and the love God has for everyone. Pray. Regret nothing.